Ghosted or Just Busy? Decoding Today’s Mixed Signals

When dating, mixed signals can be frustrating. Is it ghosting, or are they just genuinely busy? Here’s how to set boundaries and avoid guessing games.

What is Ghosting? Ghosting—cutting off all communication without explanation—speaks volumes about their inability to handle honest conversations. If they go silent, recognize it as a signal about their priorities, not a reflection of your worth.

Signs They’re Likely Just Busy A delayed reply doesn’t always mean disinterest. Here are some signs they’re busy but still making an effort:

• They respond at specific times, like work breaks or late at night, indicating they’re squeezing you in despite a packed schedule.

• Their replies are thoughtful, even if not frequent, showing they’re interested in meaningful conversation.

• They’ve told you about a busy period, showing they respect your time by setting expectations.

Set Boundaries for Clear Communication Here’s how to handle inconsistent communication without making excuses for them:

• Follow up once if you need clarity, then step back.

• Show your interest directly, but expect mutual effort in return.

• Decide what you’ll accept, and make it known—if they can’t prioritize communication, don’t chase them.

When It’s Time to Move On

If communication stays inconsistent, it’s time to move forward. Healthy relationships don’t leave you wondering where you stand. You deserve someone who prioritizes you, not someone who leaves you questioning their intentions.

How NeverMissed Reduces the Guessing Game 

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