How to Craft the Perfect Introduction After Matching on NeverMissed

You've just matched with someone on NeverMissed at your shared location—congratulations! Now comes the exciting part: the perfect introduction. First impressions matter, especially in the dating world, where a “Hello” can set the tone for your connection. Here’s a guide to help you nail that first encounter.

1. Mention the Shared Location

One of the unique features of NeverMissed is that you’ve both been to the same place, so use this to your advantage. Mentioning the location you’re both in creates an immediate connection. For example, “This café has the best coffee, don’t you think?” or “I love the vibe here—what do you think of the music?” This makes your introduction relevant and gives you something in common to discuss right away.

2. Keep It Light and Positive

The first conversation is not the time to dive into politics, religion, etc. Keep your introduction light and positive to ensure that it’s inviting and enjoyable. A little humor can be great, but make sure it’s appropriate and doesn’t come off as forced. 

3. Ask Open-Ended Questions

To keep the conversation flowing, ask open-ended questions that can’t be answered with a simple “yes” or “no.” Questions like “What do you enjoy most about coming to this place?” or “Have you tried anything on the menu that I should order?” invite a dialogue and keep the conversation going.

4. Know When to Wrap It Up

Introductions don’t need to be long. If the conversation feels like it’s naturally winding down, don’t force it to continue. Instead, gracefully wrap it up with something like, “I’ve really enjoyed talking with you. Maybe we can grab a drink later?” This leaves the door open for further interaction.

With NeverMissed, you already have the advantage of knowing you’re in the same place at the same time—use that to your benefit! By following these tips, you’ll be well on your way to making a great first impression and starting a meaningful conversation.