Are You Being Love-Bomed?
Love-bombing might feel like a whirlwind romance initially, but underneath it all, it’s sometimes a tactic used to manipulate. Let’s discuss what love-bombing is and how to avoid it.
What Is Love-Bombing?
Love-bombing is when someone overwhelms you with attention and affection to create a quick, deep emotional connection. It can happen in any relationship but is most common in dating. While genuine interest is natural, love-bombing often follows a pattern of extreme highs followed by control.
Signs of Love-Bombing
They Move Too Fast
They talk about the future (marriage, moving in, kids) very early on.
They tell you, “I’ve never felt this way before,” within days or weeks.
Excessive Attention & Gifts
You get constant texts, calls, and lavish gifts.
They seem to know exactly what you want—or is it what they think you want?
They Isolate You
They subtly discourage you from seeing friends or family.
They make you feel guilty for spending time with others.
Over-the-Top Compliments & Declarations
They call you “the love of their life” immediately.
They idolize you, to an unhealthy degree.
Mood Swings & Manipulation
If you don’t respond the way they want, their affection disappears.
They make you feel like you “owe” them for their kindness.
How to Protect Yourself
Pace Yourself – Healthy relationships take time. If something feels rushed, set boundaries.
Stay Connected to Your Support System – Talk to friends or loved ones about your relationship dynamics.
Trust Actions Over Words – Anyone can say the right things; true intentions show in actions.
Watch for Patterns – If the love-bombing phase is followed by guilt trips or control, take a step back.
Be Ready to Walk Away – If you feel pressured or manipulated, it’s okay to leave.
Love-bombing can be confusing because it feels like intense love, but healthy relationships are not built on emotional rollercoasters. If something feels off, trust your gut. NeverMissed encourages healthy, real-life connections—without the confusion.